Hey guys, ohayo gozaimasu! Today I wanna share some life-tips to you. As the title, I'll describe the attitudes that are never bring you to success. Yeah, no one in this world who won't accept the success, That's why I'll share some tips to you. Let's reads.
1. Afraids on failure
Afraids in failure, do you? If you do then you have to trash away that thought.
Why you have to (trash away that thought)?The (success) People are experienced.Why they were become an experienced?People learn many things.From what we learn things?We learn things from what we've done, from what we've saw.How to do?We have to be brave to do something new. We don't have to be afraid.
That's the question tree. I think those question tree is enough to give a little illustration to you. I'll describe the details from question tree above.Nothing can be reach if you're afraids to do something. Working on a fire makes you burnt, even working on a water makes you soaked. Everything has a risk, you can't reject it. But you can minimize the risk. The success people are begun with the failure, you will reach nothing if you still thinking to afraids in failures. I'll give you an example. We know Bill Gates as a richest man in the world. He ever dropped out from Oxfords University. Maybe for him, that was a moment too sad to recover from. But he won't let himself fall into the depth of despair. He working hard on his dream, sometimes he fails but in the end he finally found the answer and he found Microsoft. The lesson we can take from that example isn't the business which Bill Gates created, but his spirit and intends. We need to fail one, two, three, four, even 10 times. Failure gives us a lesson, you have to learns from failures to know where was your weakness. By knowing your weakness, you can determine your next moves and you can takes an advantage from the next opportinites.
2. Self-Hestitate
The person who hestitating on himself never be success. One of the success key is confident. If you're just hestitating youself, moreover about something else?You can't do any good job if you are still hestitating yourself.To be honest, be confident person makes you do a lot of thing easier. Why?If you were confident, you won't be afraid to do something, you won't be shy to say your oppinion. People and your co-workers will commends you. Otherwise, if you're hestitating on yourself, you won't get the things as you get if you're more confident.People are likes confident person, oftenly confident person has a trust from the co-workers as a troubleshooter, or more likely canditated as a leader of the group. There's so many positive things we get if we can be confident.
3. Spending time on meaningless activity
We have to be people who use time as efficiently as possible. People who do not use the time for things that are good and wise, surely that person would not want to use the opportunities that exist.
People who take the time just for the sheer pleasure and forget about what to do for the future, he will never achieve success.
To achieve success, it needs to sacrifice. We can not achieve our success as easy as we turning the palm of our hands. The first basic thing that we have sacrifice to achieve what we want is at the expense of our time. Time is the most important thing that must be sacrificed. Sacrificed from what? Of pleasure ourselves alone.
4. Rejects someone else suggestion
"Humans are social creatures, human beings can not live without the other man." The words above are words we often hear when we talk about "human".
Based on the above, we need to use it as the basis of our life. We can not do a thing without the help of others, such as when we see a development project, we can see there is some people who do the "development" and those who do the "plan". As such, they need each other in order to create a destination.
So also with us, what we do everything is not necessarily true. There is where we forget about the things that fatal nature, but we can not know where the fault lies. Therefore, we need the help of others so that we can become more advanced.
Sometimes we ask others to help us. But the problem is when we do not ask, but people were advised us. Sometimes it makes us uncomfortable.
But here I need to emphasize again, with the help of others we can know where the location of our error. That's why people who do not want to hear advice and suggestions of others, the person is difficult to succeed.
Therefore, we need to get used to receive suggestions of others in order to help us in the future.
5. Didn't have a clear direction
"I hope that someday I could be a doctor", "I hope that someday I could be an astronaut", "I hope someday I can be ..."
Everyone has dreams, and everyone can forget their dreams as easy as they dreaming. Why? Because some people who think realistically, they are too realistic to dreaming something big and they forget it and replaced by his goal to choose a destination that is more logical in his life. In this context, it is still within reasonable limits. But the problem here is that if there is someone who is too pessimistic on him and forget all the goals and the dreams. Goal or aspiration is the standard of your life. If you do not have it then you will "just living".
"If you just live, in the jungle the apes also live. If you just works, on paddy fields the buffalos also work. "You must have a standard as to what your future life. The standard that is used as the motivation you need to get a better life.
If you do not have it, then explain to me for what you live?
6. Commiserating Yourself
To achieve success, everyone knows we need to work hard, dare to sacrifice something, and dare to accept and assume the risk. No need I say further, so if you are feeling sorry for yourself and do not want to get out of your safe zone, whether can you achieve success? You will never accomplish. Look at the history of the rich people in the world. They got it with great effort and continue to fight.
So, please trash away the nature of self-pity so you can reach your dreams. For your better future, actually.
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